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Pamela
and I lived together at George Mason University in the spring
of 1996. This picture was taken on October 2, 1996, at the
start of my 21st Birthday Celebration. We began the night
by cooking dinner at the School Street House as a premptive
apology for what we were about to do their home. This was
one of the happiest nights of my life.
Pamela wrote
this on September 11, 2002. In 2001 she was living in Los
Angeles; she is now in Florida and married. |
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September 10, 2001:
We decided to go out for dinner because my new roommate, Ali, was
still unpacking (as if anyone actually needs a reason to go out for
dinner in LA). My usually perfect, retro-style apartment was scattered
with cardboard boxes full of Cornell memorabilia and balsa wood scale
models of satellite attachments that Ali, a recent Electrical Engineering
graduate, was working on for his new job at Boeing. My cat, Milo,
was hiding behind the television, batting at the cord. It was a normal
night, and my parents’ last night in LA. They were visiting
from Florida, trying to convince me to move out of what they considered
to be a "dangerous city" filled with "lowlifes"
to Naples, where the most serious threat is being hit by a senior
citizen that can’t see over the steering wheel. Mom and Dad
weren’t exactly thrilled by the glitz and glitter (strippers
and hustlers) of Hollywood, a surreal earthquake experience in their
hotel room, or the fact that I was still limping from a serious motorcycle
accident. They were somewhat heartened by the fact that I’d
asked Ali to move in. After all, Ali was the type of guy that could
be trusted. A good-looking French-Moroccan that used to live on the
first floor of my building, Ali was intelligent, hard working and
philosophical. His Muslim beliefs, and wonderful parents, kept him
from drinking, womanizing and generally, experiencing "too much"
of the real LA. In short, he was just the kind of guy that they wanted
watching over their daughter, and the only reason that they didn't
forcibly remove me from the city.
But back to dinner. We went to a great Italian restaurant down the
street and stuffed ourselves with pasta, pasta and more pasta. I drank
two glasses of red wine, which I normally reserve for the most and
least special occasions, and immediately felt my eyes getting heavy.
Oh no! I was taking mild painkillers for my broken knee, and forgot
the doctor’s advice not to mix them with alcohol. Typical me.
Regardless, we’d had a full week, I had to work in the morning,
and my parents were due to at the airport at five a.m. to return their
rental car and make it on time for their early-morning flight, so
we decided to call it quits. We left the restaurant early. They put
me, half-asleep, in their rental car, and took me home. I kissed Mom
goodnight and told her to call me when she got home. Dad walked me
in, joked with Ali about his rhyming first and last names ("What
kind of parents name their kid Ali Squalli? That's mean.") and
gave me a big Dad-style squeeze. I told him, out of force of habit,
to have a safe trip (that’s what we always say in my family
when someone is leaving, it didn’t hold any special meaning)
and closed my eyes. I didn’t open them until the next morning,
when my parents called from LAX telling me that their flight had been
cancelled, and oh my God, wake up my roomate and turn on the TV…. |
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